Does and Don't Of Marriage Life

Many married couple find their life so boring which lead some of them to have an affair....
I was watching Oprah and got to know this...


Don't talk about money all the time - which I know is important in our everyday life but this is boring and cause frustration in the relationship

Don't talk about your children - this simply mean that don't talk about it when both the husband and wife are together..Yes you can talk about your kids but stop it and talk about his/her day at work,where did he/she went or etc


Do show appricaition among one another - this both the couple have to show how much they care about each other and from time to time besides buying gifts for your children buy something for he/her or go for a romantic dinner or holiday

The Most Important Is
Do More Sex - Sex is life the most important part where you could show your love towards your patner..


Do have exciting life ahead

Jokes

I don't know who create this joke which is so funny....
It is about teacher in a class...
I recieve it from a mail in fact...

Murid : Selamat pagi, cikgu.
Cikgu : (Menengking) Mengapa selamat pagi sahaja? Petang dan malam awak doakan saya tak selamat?

Murid : Selamat pagi, petang dan malam cikgu!

Cikgu : Panjang sangat! Tak pernah dibuat oleh orang! Kata selamat sejahtera! Senang dan penuh bermakna. Lagipun ucapan ini meliputi semua masa dan keadaan.

Murid : Selamat sejahtera cikgu!

Cikgu : Sama-sama, duduk! Dengar sini baik-baik. Hari ini cikgu nak uji kamu semua tentang perkataan berlawan. Bila cikgu sebutkan perkataannya, kamu semua mesti menjawab dengan cepat, lawan bagi perkataan-perkataan itu, faham?

Murid : Faham, cikgu!

Cikgu : Saya tak mahu ada apa-apa gangguan.

Murid : (senyap)

Cikgu : Pandai!

Murid : Bodoh!

Cikgu : Tinggi!

Murid : Rendah!

Cikgu : Jauh!

Murid : Dekat!

Cikgu : Keadilan!

Murid : UMNO!

Cikgu : Salah!

Murid : Betul!

Cikgu : Bodoh!

Murid : Pandai!

Cikgu : Bukan!

Murid : Ya!

Cikgu : Oh Tuhan!

Murid : Oh Hamba!

Cikgu : Dengar ini!

Murid : Dengar itu!

Cikgu : Diam!

Murid : Bising!

Cikgu : Itu bukan pertanyaan, bodoh!

Murid : Ini ialah jawapan, pandai!

Cikgu : Mati aku!

Murid : Hidup kami!

Cikgu : Rotan baru tau!

Murid : Akar lama tak tau!

Cikgu : Malas aku ajar kamu!

Murid : Rajin kami belajar cikgu!

Cikgu : Kamu gila!

Murid : Kami siuman!

Cikgu : Cukup! Cukup!

Murid : Kurang! Kurang!

Cikgu : Sudah! Sudah!

Murid : Belum! Belum!

Cikgu : Mengapa kamu semua bodoh sangat?

Murid : Sebab saya seorang pandai!

Cikgu : Oh! Melawan!

Murid : Oh! Mengalah!

Cikgu : Kurang ajar!

Murid : Cukup ajar!

Cikgu : Habis aku!

Murid : Kekal kami!

Cikgu : O.K. Pelajaran sudah habis!

Murid : K.O. Pelajaran belum bermula!

Cikgu : Sudah, bodoh!

Murid : Belum, pandai!

Cikgu : Berdiri!

Murid : Duduk!

Cikgu : Saya kata UMNO salah!

Murid : Kami dengar KeADILan betul!

Cikgu : Bangang kamu ni!

Murid : Cerdik kami tu!

Cikgu : Rosak!

Murid : Baik!

Cikgu : Kamu semua ditahan tengah hari ini!

Murid : Dilepaskan tengah malam itu!

Cikgu : (Senyap dan mengambil buku-bukunya keluar.)

Nice Story To Share

I recieve a email from my brother today...
Nice one..
Read it and you will like it...

USED vs LOVED

While a man was polishing his new car,
his 4 yr old son picked up a stone
and scratched lines on the side of the car.

In anger, the man took the child's hand
and hit it many times not realizing
he was using a wrench.

At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers
due to multiple fractures.

When the child saw his father.....
with painful eyes he asked, 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?'
The man was so hurt and speechless;
he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times.

Devastated by his own actions......
sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches;
the child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD'.
The next day that man committed suicide. . .

Anger and Love have no limits;
choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely
life & remember this:
Things are to be used and people are to be loved.
The problem in today's world is
that people are used while things are loved.

Let's try always to keep this thought in mind:
Things are to be used,
People are to be loved.

Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character;
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

Give Respect

No matter who we are and what are we...I feel giving respect to one another is important even the person is a stranger to you..In every aspect someone will judge us by the way we talk and by the way we behave..

So no matter where we are or with who we are with...
Respect that person...

Stop Using Maid And Be Independent

Since there are so many abused cases of Indonesia maid happen in Malaysia..It is better to stop their services as they are not treated well..I know that not everyone who are responsible but the image of Malaysia will be gone because of all this issue..And this is so unfair for the maid's family as they came far away from home to earn their money but nightmare happen in their life...

Today these happen,
An Indonesian maid who was allegedly severely beaten by her Malaysian employers, and then bound and locked up in a toilet for two days, has died in hospital, police said Monday.

Click here to read

I don't understand why certain people need maid if their main purpose is to abused them..I think we could be independent and able to clean the house our self..

Is better to do all things on our own rather than be behind bars..

Dad's Cooking

Last Saturday my dad cook maggi goreng..He told my mom that she don't know how to cooked well and I end up being his assistance..So I was his tukang potong...And he is the tukang goreng..While eating eat everything taste really good and I even told my mom that dad's cooking is better...

After a few hours of eating we had stomach problem...Cirit birit...Hahahaha..I sakit perut and dad also sakit perut...At the end mom make us teh O pekat...hahaha...

Self Pamper Day

I have been waiting for this day so that I could clean up my heels which is so dirty as it is crack..I couldn't take it anymore...With my less swollen eye I went to the shop to do pedicure...

Here the lady is drawing the art on my nails..I really admire how they does that..Is like so easy for them to draw....

After one side of the legs is done..I had to leave the nails for half and hour to dry..

And finally this is the result...

But to do this Rm 30
The next time I will be going to a place which only charge Rm10 for the art work even how difficult the design..
Will be going there in 2 weeks time with my cousin as I don't know the place..

Cute Little Baby

I had the chance to meet all my nieces as last week were Dewali and all of them were at my place.The last time I seen them when they were babies but now they are all big.

This is me and Little Shouna the last time I saw her was at her house wjem she were baby and now 2 months already...huhuhu..Aku semakin tua...

And this Little Angel is Amanda..She is a mix of Indian and Swedish blood and she follow her father's side as her mom is Indian...She is so cute and she is friendly...But sadly she went back to Sweden already...

There Are Silly People On The Road

I said so is because there are certain people out there who don't understand the colour of the traffic light and the meaning of it....

For those who don't understand please read this and keep in your mind...
When it turn RED IT MEAN STOP,YELLOW MEAN GET READY TO STOP and GREEN MEAN GO...

I was cursing this driver in the car yesterday while waiting for my brother after his class...I park my car right in front of a zebra crossing and I saw this boy press the button of the traffic light so that the light would turn red and he is able to cross the road as the road is a busy road...So as a smart person we all know that when the light turn red it mean stop so that the boy would be able to cross the road..There are people who stop the car and after walking half way through the zebra crossing the is a car just speed off even the light was red..And the boy was lucky as he manage to stop or else he would be in hospital after that..

PLEASE OBEY THE TRAFFIC LIGHT
IT COULD SAVE YOUR LIFE OR SOMEONE YOU LOVE

Terrible People

I understand that there are some people who are having lots of problem in life and some might not have an easy life.But that does not mean all you have to do is walk house to house and ask for money.This happen to me in the morning where Indian family with three children and their mute mother come and ring my door bell.So I went to the front and ask them what they want.The mother show me her sign language telling that she can't speak and ask her daughter to speak behalf of me.So first she wish me "Happy Diwali" and told me she and her brother wants "ang pau".I told her I don't have it so I ask them to walk away and I came in.They insist to go and the mother is scolding me for not giving her children "ang pau".

I don't understand as if it is their nature to beg for money they must understand that there are time people will let you down by not giving you what you ask for.Not to say the mother can't work.She can but is just that she is lazy.If she knows that she can't afford to support her children why wants to happen many kids.Ahyooooo....human is so difficult to understand as later their children will be the one who suffer.

Think before you make babies...

Check Before You Use It

Yesterday I went to the doctor as my eyes were swollen and the doctor gave me eye drop so that I could use it for my eyes..Usually I don't check the expiring date...But when I was about to take my medicine from the doctor I notice his behaviour were strange..That makes me to check the expiring date of the eye drop..Which was Sept 2009 and now is Oct 2009..The eye drop is one month expired...I told my dad for about it and he went to the clinic to change the eye drop but the is now stock as all the eye drop there is expired..and the doctor return us the money and ask us to but it from nearby pharmacies...

No only our food we have to check the expiring date but also the medicine that we use everyday...

We Love Holiday

Well from next year on,we Malaysian will be celebrating Malaysia Day on the 16 September.So on this particular day students and working people can enjoy another extra holiday of the year as on the 16 September next year it will be a national public holiday.

Beyonce Dance Moves v Local Girls Dance Moves

Beyonce's concert will be postponed to a new date but there are certain group such as PAS who wants the concert to be banned.The reason they gives is because of her gyrating moves on stage and her sexy outfits.

I wonder why are they having problem with her concert but not looking into what's really happening locally in our country.For example in The Star today,Sexy dances, wild antics and late hours at outlet.Is this ok if this is happening in our country.They do not banned that Malay's girls should not dance in such a way.Because as it stated in The Star:

UPPER class and urban Malays are patronising an entertainment outlet in KL Sentral where girls perform sexy dances on top of the bar, Kosmo! reported in its front page.

The scantily-clad Malay girls attract the men with their gyrating dance moves. The outlet, which has been in operation for two years, opens for business until 5am.

Click here for more

These girls who dance in the entertainment outlet is worst than Beyonce concert as she dance on the stage for her fans around her where by these girls dance on the top of the bar to attract men.

Why don't we as Malaysian look into what really happening locally in our country rather than looking at the negative side of a perfect entertainment world?

Bad Year 2009

I have a feeling that this year is bad luck for me as many things happen to me in a way that I hope it didn't happen to me...For example I fail me exam this year...Because of this those who loves me hate me so much up to a point they think that I wanted to fail my exam...hmmmmmmmmmm...I got no comment for it..I just accept it as my faith...And my Diwali is not so fun as well..Sharp 12mid I was crying all by myself because I was hurt..There are pain in me...So pain till I got to let it out...

I hate 2009

Is A Shame For Police Traffic

Well I was driving near BM Hospital yesterday..And there is a zebra crossing and the traffic light did change into red when I stop my car..But what shock me is that a police traffic who was riding the police motor didn't stop at the traffic light but he just when straight..And there was actually people crossing the road...As a goo police I am sure he will stop at the traffic light but I am sure that it will be no wrong for him to go if the motor siren is on but THE SIREN IS NOT ON....As he when straight the others motor bikes followed him and he wanted to stop the other motor but the policeman couldn't do so because he himself showing the others an example

SO THE POLICE DIDN'T STOP THE OTHERS AS HE FEEL ASHAMED OF WHAT HE DID

I REGRET OF NOT TAKING DOWN THE NUMBER

Thank You Cedric

When I woke up in the morning yesterday I check my hp and I receive a massage from Cedric asking me to read his blog as one of his post is from me...So I was thinking what is it and I thought that I will just check it at night because I was getting ready to work...So I tak tahan I went and check it out..I was surprise after reading the post I have no idea why he suddenly wrote it for me but in the same time I am shock and while I was reading it...Tears starts to drop slowly from my eyes as I was so touch for his massage...

Dear Dharshini

October 12th, 2009

As a friend, I am terribly upset with myself for not being able to be there for you when I heard about you getting very very close to be able to continue your course in Scheme B.

I wanted to text you but I know myself, if I go on, the text message would last for more than 123882 pages. I wanted to email you but I’m not sure if you’ll be checking your email frequently, but there are a few things I wish to reach out to you.

I have been your friend for quite a few years, of course our relationship was very very close, but because of our different schedules, we sorta separated but that doesn’t mean I have completely forgotten about you. I wasn’t brave to call you up when you’re having a hard time when you got to know your results, simply because I afraid I might just cry with you on the phone, considering I didn’t do so well in my Part 1.

Of course I would not compare myself with you, I know you’re much unfortunate than me because I’ve seen you working so hard to achieve your dream but nevertheless, it’s the University of London who failed you, and what is the purpose of me writing this in my blog?

I personally want to tell you that after reading your blog, I am very proud of you as a friend. You portray yourself as a superwoman in your blog, though life has given you obstacles, you did not give up like many others would choose to do. Maybe law is not meant for you, but that doesn’t mean you’re a complete useless person, like I said, I have known you for quite some time and you are a girl with many talents which you yourself would have to identify them.

From my observation, you are a very friendly person with really great sense of humor, still remember the moments we laughed so hard in Sharifah’s car? You are someone with really kind heart, you should know yourself more. But really, law is not the only course that will take you far in life. You may never know just when you’re taking time off to ponder the path you choose, you might come across something you’re really passionate with.

If your parents are disappointed in you, please… Don’t take this to your heart, I MYSELF have seen how you worked hard for it. You really had the determination but sometimes shit happens, nobody should have the rights to blame you for not being able to make it through. But what important is, you’re really finding opportunities to get on with your life, this, my friend, is something worth complimenting.

With your determination, I am sure someday you will be able to come out as someone successful, but please remain strong no matter how many obstacles have to appear in your life. Life is always a test, those who strive through will stand up taller than those who would point at you and say, “Dharshini, you’re a failure!!!”, never ever give up, that’s all I can say.

And I sincerely hope that you would be able to find something you’re truly passionate with and rise to the top. Of course, if you ever need help, my cell is always on.

You’re a friend I will never forget.

Love,
-Ced-

Honestly till no one have ever said that to me but yes they do ask me what am I going to do next but they do tell me not to give up as well...But the situation now is totally different because of one mark my whole life has change...I know there will be people laughing behind my back but what to do as Cedric said SHIT happens sometimes...No matter what I have to be strong and move on..But I never give up in anything that's what should be noted

Cedric thank you for the post....

Busy...

Today I will be helping my mom to do muruku for dewali which is just in a week time...This year we are late in baking all the cookies because mom and me are working...So we have to finish baking by tomorrow..Hopefully la...heheheh...Besides that we have to also start cleaning the house as dad will be having dinner for his friend before dewali...

Happy Working And Cleaning To Myself

October Is The Month

Well starting from next year...OCTOBER will be the month of "Bahasa Kebangsaan"...This means that everyone of us should speak our "Bahasa Kebangsaan" as many of us might forget that language because everywhere we go all of us will speak English...

BE PROUD OF OUR BAHASA KEBANGSAAN

Love Your Breast

Ladies out there please be aware that breast cancer among women is getting serious day by day as many of them did not manage to prevent the cancer from spreading .So no matter what we do everyday to take care of our life style by doing exercise and by taking healthy food this will help us to prevent other diseases but the most important factor that we women have to do everyday is TO TOUCH AND FEEL YOUR OWN BREAST.

This is because we know our breast better than anyone else.
If you feel there is a lump somewhere near your breast or under your armpit.
Don't be shy to consult a doctor.
It is better if you check your breast monthly after your period because during period time your breast will be swollen and this is normal during period time but not everyday.

EARLY DETECTION WILL HELP YOU TO SAVE YOUR BREAST AND ALSO YOUR LIFE

LOVE YOUR BREAST..