I really do appreciate all those people who reads my blog.But in the same time I might know who you are and sometimes I might not know who you are.So that is the reason why I would want you all to indicate yourself to me.Because I don't know who you are.
Well today I receive an email for a girl name "Gal Friend" I don't know who is she..
She said I should change myself.For the person information I had change myself and that's the reason I don't really mix around with people.And I only mix with those who really accept me as their friend and was there for me when I was down.
She even told me that friends and money may come anytime but education should b a priority.I think she think that I don't know anything about education.Hahahahaha.Money may come any time but when got not enough money now to study what would happen.Curi bank ke.Friends is important as they are part of our life and don't tel me you got no friend.
She even said I avoid myself from true friendship.But did I really avoid it.As I feel I still have my friends around me.
Hope you let me me know you are..
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Friday, November 27, 2009
Worth To Read - Power Of Money
Today I recieve a mail from my uncle regarding "Power Of Money".
This is written by Adam Khoo who is Singapore's youngest millionaire at 26 years old.
Some of you may already know that I travel around the region pretty frequently, having to visit and conduct seminars at my offices in Malaysia , Indonesia , Thailand and Suzhou ( China ). I am in the airport almost every other week so I get to bump into many people who have attended my seminars or have read my books.
Recently, someone came up to me on a plane to KL and looked rather shocked. He asked, 'How come a millionaire like you is travelling economy?' My reply was, 'That's why I am a millionaire. ' He still looked pretty confused.
This again confirms that greatest lie ever told about wealth (which I wrote about in my latest book 'Secrets of Self Made Millionaires'). Many people have been brainwashed to think that millionaires have to wear Gucci, Hugo Boss, Rolex, and sit on first class in air travel. This is why so many people never become rich because the moment that earn more money, they think that it is only natural that they spend more, putting them back to square one.
The truth is that most self made millionaires are frugal and only spend on what is necessary and of value. That is why they are able to accumulate and multiply their wealth so much faster.
Over the last 7 years, I have saved about 80% of my income while today I save only about 60% (because I have my wife, mother in law, 2 maids, 2 kids, etc. to support). Still, it is way above most people who save 10% of their income (if they are lucky).
I refuse to buy a first class ticket or to buy a $300 shirt because I think that it is a complete waste of money. However, I happily pay $1,300 to send my 2 year old daughter to Julia Gabriel Speech and D ram a without thinking twice.
When I joined the YEO (Young Entrepreneur's Orgn)a few years back (YEO) is an exclusive club open to those who are under 40 and make over $1m a year in their own business) I discovered that those who were self made thought like me. Many of them with net worth well over $5m,travelled economy class and some even drove Toyota 's and Nissans,not Audis, Mercs, BMWs..
I noticed that it was only those who never had to work hard to build their own wealth (there were also a few ministers' and tycoons' sons in the club) who spent like there was no tomorrow. Somehow, when you did not have to build everything from scratch, you do not really value money. This is precisely the reason why a family's wealth (no matter how much) rarely lasts past the third generation.
Thank God my rich dad foresaw this terrible possibility and refused to give me a cent to start my business.
Then some people ask me, 'What is the point in making so much money if you don't enjoy it?' The thing is that I don't really find happiness in buying branded clothes, jewellery or sitting first class. Even if buying something makes me happy it is only for a while, it does not last.
Material happiness never lasts, it just give you a quick fix. After a while you feel lousy again and have to buy the next thing which you think will make you happy. I always think that if you need material things to make you happy, then you live a pretty sad and unfulfilled life..
Instead, what makes me happy is when I see my children laughing and playing and learning so fast. What makes me happy is when I see my companies and trainers reaching more and more people every year in so many more countries.
What makes me really happy is when I read all the emails about how my books and seminars have touched and inspired some one's life.
What makes me really happy is reading all your wonderful posts about how this blog is inspiring you. This happiness makes me feel really good for a long time, much much more than what a Rolex would do for me.
I think the point I want to put across is that happiness must come from doing your life's work (be it teaching, building homes, designing,trading, winning tournaments etc.) and the money that comes is only a by-product. If you hate what you are doing and rely on the money you earn to make you happy by buying stuff, then I think that you are living a life of meaninglessness.
This is written by Adam Khoo who is Singapore's youngest millionaire at 26 years old.
Some of you may already know that I travel around the region pretty frequently, having to visit and conduct seminars at my offices in Malaysia , Indonesia , Thailand and Suzhou ( China ). I am in the airport almost every other week so I get to bump into many people who have attended my seminars or have read my books.
Recently, someone came up to me on a plane to KL and looked rather shocked. He asked, 'How come a millionaire like you is travelling economy?' My reply was, 'That's why I am a millionaire. ' He still looked pretty confused.
This again confirms that greatest lie ever told about wealth (which I wrote about in my latest book 'Secrets of Self Made Millionaires'). Many people have been brainwashed to think that millionaires have to wear Gucci, Hugo Boss, Rolex, and sit on first class in air travel. This is why so many people never become rich because the moment that earn more money, they think that it is only natural that they spend more, putting them back to square one.
The truth is that most self made millionaires are frugal and only spend on what is necessary and of value. That is why they are able to accumulate and multiply their wealth so much faster.
Over the last 7 years, I have saved about 80% of my income while today I save only about 60% (because I have my wife, mother in law, 2 maids, 2 kids, etc. to support). Still, it is way above most people who save 10% of their income (if they are lucky).
I refuse to buy a first class ticket or to buy a $300 shirt because I think that it is a complete waste of money. However, I happily pay $1,300 to send my 2 year old daughter to Julia Gabriel Speech and D ram a without thinking twice.
When I joined the YEO (Young Entrepreneur's Orgn)a few years back (YEO) is an exclusive club open to those who are under 40 and make over $1m a year in their own business) I discovered that those who were self made thought like me. Many of them with net worth well over $5m,travelled economy class and some even drove Toyota 's and Nissans,not Audis, Mercs, BMWs..
I noticed that it was only those who never had to work hard to build their own wealth (there were also a few ministers' and tycoons' sons in the club) who spent like there was no tomorrow. Somehow, when you did not have to build everything from scratch, you do not really value money. This is precisely the reason why a family's wealth (no matter how much) rarely lasts past the third generation.
Thank God my rich dad foresaw this terrible possibility and refused to give me a cent to start my business.
Then some people ask me, 'What is the point in making so much money if you don't enjoy it?' The thing is that I don't really find happiness in buying branded clothes, jewellery or sitting first class. Even if buying something makes me happy it is only for a while, it does not last.
Material happiness never lasts, it just give you a quick fix. After a while you feel lousy again and have to buy the next thing which you think will make you happy. I always think that if you need material things to make you happy, then you live a pretty sad and unfulfilled life..
Instead, what makes me happy is when I see my children laughing and playing and learning so fast. What makes me happy is when I see my companies and trainers reaching more and more people every year in so many more countries.
What makes me really happy is when I read all the emails about how my books and seminars have touched and inspired some one's life.
What makes me really happy is reading all your wonderful posts about how this blog is inspiring you. This happiness makes me feel really good for a long time, much much more than what a Rolex would do for me.
I think the point I want to put across is that happiness must come from doing your life's work (be it teaching, building homes, designing,trading, winning tournaments etc.) and the money that comes is only a by-product. If you hate what you are doing and rely on the money you earn to make you happy by buying stuff, then I think that you are living a life of meaninglessness.
Thursday, November 26, 2009
Sad
I don't understand why there are people who look at the past and hurt our feeling.is it because they think that I am bad? It is hurt when someone talk about the pass as I don't want it to happen a well.Months have pass but there are still people who blame me that I had simply wanted to fail my exam.I wonder which crazy people who would want to fail in their exams and would study in the same time.If I would have decided that I would simply fail my exam I am sure that I would not pay the exam fees as it is not cheap and I know how my parents got the money for me.I know that there are doubt in parents to sent me to study as they are worry that I would want to waste their money.I don't want that to happen as well.I am hurt very hurt and honestly I am jealous to see my friends who have the chance to study easily but I have so much of problem.
First,I believe if there is money everything will be fine but I am not from rich family and I realise that.
Not only that I know there are people who are talking behind my back with and without my knowledge and that's the reason I am keeping myself away from many family gathering and I am sure the next family gathering will be in Xmas and there are people who I knew would ask me and talk to me what I am going to do next.
So please don't be surprise if I am missing and don't ask my parents about me as they are not happy with me.
Like my dad..when I told him that I will be doing H&T in KDU next year he ask me what about law.Is not that I never Tell him before that I going to change my course but they still expect me to do law.
I know is hard and is hard for me as well because I got to miss around with those people who are younger than me and strangers that I will studying together next year.
My life is so much of pain...
First,I believe if there is money everything will be fine but I am not from rich family and I realise that.
Not only that I know there are people who are talking behind my back with and without my knowledge and that's the reason I am keeping myself away from many family gathering and I am sure the next family gathering will be in Xmas and there are people who I knew would ask me and talk to me what I am going to do next.
So please don't be surprise if I am missing and don't ask my parents about me as they are not happy with me.
Like my dad..when I told him that I will be doing H&T in KDU next year he ask me what about law.Is not that I never Tell him before that I going to change my course but they still expect me to do law.
I know is hard and is hard for me as well because I got to miss around with those people who are younger than me and strangers that I will studying together next year.
My life is so much of pain...
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Stop Giving It
I don't know when Malaysia will be free from "rasuah".
As people are giving it once they are against the law and the people are receiving it.
Today there is a friend of mine called me and told me that she paid a policeman Rm50 so that she don't have to pay the fine for Rm300.Even Rm50 can change a person life.Is it because the policeman is not paid well till he got to take the money?
How are the people in Malaysia will be afraid of the law?
Is the law not strict enough for those who are giving it and receiving it?
What surprise me was that when she told me there is a tactic for her to give the money.Which is by putting it under the saman book so that people won't be able to see what is happening as it is a public area.
I know that there are certain group of policeman who will do these and not all of them.As a peribahasa in malay which stated as "kerana nila setitik rosak susu belanga".That's what will happen to the police department.
So we as a good citizen have to stop giving it to them...
As people are giving it once they are against the law and the people are receiving it.
Today there is a friend of mine called me and told me that she paid a policeman Rm50 so that she don't have to pay the fine for Rm300.Even Rm50 can change a person life.Is it because the policeman is not paid well till he got to take the money?
How are the people in Malaysia will be afraid of the law?
Is the law not strict enough for those who are giving it and receiving it?
What surprise me was that when she told me there is a tactic for her to give the money.Which is by putting it under the saman book so that people won't be able to see what is happening as it is a public area.
I know that there are certain group of policeman who will do these and not all of them.As a peribahasa in malay which stated as "kerana nila setitik rosak susu belanga".That's what will happen to the police department.
So we as a good citizen have to stop giving it to them...
Sunday, November 22, 2009
Dear Drivers
I am please to remind all car drivers to make sure that your break light is working as at night it will be difficult for the behind car to judge when you want to stop.
Please don't be selfish and think about others.
Love your life and your love ones.
Please don't be selfish and think about others.
Love your life and your love ones.
Saturday, November 21, 2009
Mistake That We Done
Everyday in our lives there are so many mistakes that we as we don't realise about it...
Today I receive an email from my uncle and I want to share it with you all.
Mistake that girls use to do (even me)
Sit cross legs - For us girls we think that it is lady like manner to sit that way. But the fact is that without us realising it we actually cuts down blood circulation to our legs.
Today I receive an email from my uncle and I want to share it with you all.
Mistake that girls use to do (even me)
Sit cross legs - For us girls we think that it is lady like manner to sit that way. But the fact is that without us realising it we actually cuts down blood circulation to our legs.
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Are We Safe?
Sometimes I wonder if we are safe to get out of the house.Even by standing outside the house some stranger might come to us and snatch us for no reason.An innocent women who was walking to temple was lucky to be alive after being hit with a hammer on her head in KL.I wonder why snatch thief have no mercy on their victim as they are also human being as the are not "baboons" from the jungle.I am sure that this "baboons" will not keep quite if someone else have attack their family member in such a way they had attack others.Because all their victim is all innocent and no one deserve to suffer the pain or die in such manner.
Where are the authority when we need the?
Why can't all these "baboons" be caught asap?
Why are they still out there?
I am sure there are many other question the be ask by many other people.
This is really unfair for us as we wants to have a happy and safe life style.
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
Been Out
Sorry for not posting any post for the past few week as I was busy working and also I went down to try my luck for Air Asia...But sadly I didn't get...But that doesn't mean that I give up..I have set my mind of what I want to do for next year..Besides that,now days I also been busy working up in the gym to improve my body...
Will update soon..
Will update soon..
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Be Aware
Please be noted that many places are flooded because of the rain...
Parents out there should be aware of what their children is doing and where they are going...
Because in two days itself because of flood it has cause two children to drown...
I wonder where are their parents to protect and care about them...
So parents out there do take care of your children no matter where they are...
Parents out there should be aware of what their children is doing and where they are going...
Because in two days itself because of flood it has cause two children to drown...
I wonder where are their parents to protect and care about them...
So parents out there do take care of your children no matter where they are...
Monday, November 9, 2009
Holes
Sometimes I feel that the reason why Malaysian cars cepat rosak is because of the condition of the road in Malaysia..No matter where we go we can see alot of holes on the road for no reason..And sometimes we can't even realise that the holes is there...I don't understand why is there holes..Can't they do something with it..What are the Jabatan Kerja Raya workes are doin??..And don't forget we pay road tax so that we could drive our car..And by driving the car on the road it mean that we need a perfect road without holes...
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Indian Girls
I was out with my friends yesterday...Mohana,Ravin,Somas,Calvin and my brother Kevin..We went to Coffee Island and while we were eating Ravin were smoking and they were talking about ways to quit smoking...
Suddenly Calvin said that Indian girls have the attitude to ask their boyfriend to quit smoking once they couple up...he ask me and Mohana why are Indian girls like that..We girls can't answer that because we are not like that..But Calvin said that to quit smoking is up to an individual and they must do it to satisfied themselves and not others...
But when I think about it..The answer that I could give is that maybe the girl just being caring towards the guy...But in some point I agree with Calvin ask the must quit smoking according to their willingness...As is not easy to quit smoking..
But no matter what...It takes time...
Suddenly Calvin said that Indian girls have the attitude to ask their boyfriend to quit smoking once they couple up...he ask me and Mohana why are Indian girls like that..We girls can't answer that because we are not like that..But Calvin said that to quit smoking is up to an individual and they must do it to satisfied themselves and not others...
But when I think about it..The answer that I could give is that maybe the girl just being caring towards the guy...But in some point I agree with Calvin ask the must quit smoking according to their willingness...As is not easy to quit smoking..
But no matter what...It takes time...
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
Go Green
Penang state is the only state which have "Plastic Day" on every Monday...But I think this should be done everyday and not only Monday..I know there are certain group would complain about this but if this could save the world..Why not we stop using it??? As this world that we are living in have to be save...
So why not every state in Malaysia follow Penang state and stop using the plastic...
1) Every family should have their own shopping bag..
2) Carry your our Tupperware when you buy food outside..
Save the world
So why not every state in Malaysia follow Penang state and stop using the plastic...
1) Every family should have their own shopping bag..
2) Carry your our Tupperware when you buy food outside..
Save the world
Sunday, November 1, 2009
Prayer Is Important
No matter what we do in our everyday life..Prayer is a good way for you to start your day..So people think that it is ok they stand in front of God and pray what they want..
I have learn that by doing that in some ways we are right and some are not ok..Because without realising we might pray to the other spirit besides God..With good prayer we offer to God everyday God will be there but..When we are not sincere in praying the other thing will be there...We won't actually realise about it...
I am happy that I learn alot recently...
I have learn that by doing that in some ways we are right and some are not ok..Because without realising we might pray to the other spirit besides God..With good prayer we offer to God everyday God will be there but..When we are not sincere in praying the other thing will be there...We won't actually realise about it...
I am happy that I learn alot recently...
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