Wednesday, December 23, 2009
Never Look Back
People please look forward and forget the pass
*Who ever you are you told me that you will never mail me again..But what happen you mail me..Hope you stop it..
Sunday, December 20, 2009
You
You may want to think that I did it for purpose.
You may think that I don't know what are the situation of our family.
You may hurt me how much I want.
You may think that I am happy with the situation I am now.
You may laugh at me and think that I want to be a failure.
You may think that I don't care of my brothers.
You among all the people have let me down and hurt me badly when I got to know that you told people I stay at home because I am learning to be wife and mother.
People may tell you what to do.
People may tell me to marry off and have child and not to study.
People won't understand my pain as no one in their family is a failure.
People may tell that I am 23 and don't deserve to study.
People may tell that this is the age they have kids.
Yes for those people who want to know when I am getting married...It is next year and don't forget to keep ang pau for me..That's is important..
But GOD please bless all those people who talk about me to have good life now as I know "WHAT GOES AROUND MAY COME AROUND".
People please be happy........
Thursday, December 17, 2009
Eat What Ever
For the pass few month I been controlling my food as once when I was in JB I had bad experience for eating alot..(That time was greedy-and I admit that) I use to eat what I want and for the pass couple of months I have been active in gym and I realise that my appetite has change as I don't eat much and I stop eating lots of food as I want to control my diet as well and I start eating alot of food.
But today I eat alot hahahahah..For breakfast itself I took nasi lemak as I was very hungry after that took one piece of bun and one piece of KFC chicken and also ice cream..
That is alot..But never mind as I will be going to the gym and for belly dancing class in two hours time..
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
So Unfair
But I am sad on one article in The Star
PM’s call on learning Mandarin lauded
It is a good idea to call all Malaysia's citizen to learn mandarin as it is an advantage in our everyday life and in these business world today.
But what up sad me is that
On Monday, Najib said he encouraged Malaysians, especially Malays, to learn Mandarin because the language was one of the country’s many assets.
These statement does not show 1 Malaysia as our beloved PM only encourage the Malays to learn Mandarin but how about the Indians?
Are they not included in the 1 Malaysia concept???????
Are They Human?
These type of people should not be characterise as human.They deserve to be punish for what they have done.Terrible....
For those who can't have kids.There are many option for you all to have one but please don't buy baby.You can even adopt one child for yourself.And please don't think that the baby you adopt is not your child but please remember that everyone of us are GOD child.That is important.
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
Happy 1st Birthday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Friday, December 11, 2009
Not Good For Me
I have been working up in gym nearly everyday.At least 2 hours a day.Usually my weight will be 50kg and this time I have lost 2 kg and now my weight is 48kg.The purpose I am going to gym is not to lost weight but for me to keep fit.
Besides that,I don't really eat much as I use to.Hmmmmmmmmmm.....
Got to start eating alot and put back my weight to 50kg and in the same time exercise as well..
Hope I could be like Thiban...have muscle soon
Thursday, December 10, 2009
Had Fun
After so many years I didn't spent some late night out with my friends.I did it last night and it was a BLAST....huh...but before that there is nightmare happen as Asu was suppose to fetch me..So as she told me that she will be coming at 7.30pm she came but suddenly her car stop in front of my house..She got so panic and so am I...What happen was her petrol habis...Hahahaha..
So we went to Autocity at around 8.30 and we hang around OldTown before we went to SS..The arrival of the Queen Sharifah seperti biasa lambat...hahahahaha..Reach at 9.00 so we were talking and had girls talk about friends,gossip,boyfriends and etc...
At 11pm we went to SS and since it was Wednesday it was Ladies Night..It was so crowded and we found a table near the bar and the stage...The band last night was really great..And the lady who dance on the stage I really admire her as she is not young but old and she can dance and sing well...
So while drinking our Vodka with Coke and dancing around a waiter came and told that a men bought tequila shot for us..We didn't accept it..As we can't trust anyone in the club because later if we accept they will take the advantage to come near us..Okie so we rejected...
Another round another type of drinks was offered to us...And again rejected...And goes the same when guys ajak to dance as well..All rejected...But the promoter was really good as they want to sell their drinks they teach us to accept their drink so that they could earn money...
I was also shock maybe is because I never go clubbing like 2 years I saw 2 men we buying gals and the gals accept the money and went with them..It happen right in front of me..Hmmmmm...To get money people will do anything...
All of us had a great night out and we didn't stay till late night as by 12.30am we reach home safe and sound...
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Disco Stick
Well hope he is fine after the accident and most important of all his disco stick must be fine...
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
I Never Ask For
Well I feel that true friends will never hide your identity and I don't understand the reason why you are hiding yourself...
I know that I won't reach you as I don't know who are you..
You don't have to be ashamed as is you who make yourself ashamed as you don't want to tell me who are you..
I am glad that you will stop mailing me..
Anywhere take care...
I Have People To Talk too
I can share my problem to my love so that shows that I don't need you....
And I have my gals to talk to when I have problem and again that's shows that I don't need you also...
And the most important person of all I share my problem is GOD so again I don't need you
Eight Years Celebration
Despite all the complain they still choose AirAsia as they are the best and they know how to value their customer but providing them low fair rate.
This time AirAsia will be providing Rm 8 promo as it will be celebrating its 8 years anniversary.To booked for this promo it stars today the 8 Dec until the 18 Dec.
Click here for more info
Monday, December 7, 2009
My Story
Many people looked at me and they may think that I am happy with the way I am right now.But the fact is that I am not happy at all.The happiness that show on my face is just a fake smile on me.I am suffering inside and I could kill myself as I could feel the pain in my chest.
Is not that I don't want to study but how could I do it? Is not that I don't want take ptptn but I mus settle the previous payment and then only I could apply a new loan on ptptn.I am not from a rich family who get everything that I want.People think that I don't want but in the same time I must understand my parents situation as they not only feeding me but my two brothers as well.
I cannot talk about my problem to anyone as no one could help me when money is involve.I have been crying and I hate it so much.I don't want to feel this way.I don't want to be a failure and I want everyone to be happy.Is not that I simply do want I want and hurt everyone around me.
Touch my heart and ask myself where are all my ptptn money.I have the answer but should I tell it out.You all have spent for me so I am not complaining.Who don't want to get married? I do want to be with you.But I am helpless right now.
I really wish I could get money I do what I want right now.Rob a bank if I can.There are lucky people who are born rich and get what they want and could do what they want but I am not to be born rich and that's the reason why I have so much of pain in me.
I myself know that I am not the happy girl that I use to be before.
Bra for Men
I will not be shock as years to come there will be bra for men.Because as stated in the Star newspaper,it seems that mens who usually consume vitality supplement may end up having breast because of its side effect.
If thats the case soon husband and wife could be sharing bra...hahahahaha...
MEN who consume vitality supplements should be careful as medical experts revealed such drugs may cause side effects, such as developing breasts, reported Metro Ahad.
In some cases, the affected men had to wear bras.
Men’s health expert Dr Ismail Thamby said steroids and estrogenics are identified as the main cause of gynecomastia, or the development of breasts in men.
He added the number of men with gynecomastia were increasing as they did not realise the side-effect of the long-term use of these vitality supplements.
There are not many choices for one afflicted with the problem and the most effective way to reduce the breast size is through a reduction surgery.
Guys please love yourself and let the bra belong to the women
Friday, December 4, 2009
Happy Birthday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Don't Understand
Well today I receive an email for a girl name "Gal Friend" I don't know who is she..
She said I should change myself.For the person information I had change myself and that's the reason I don't really mix around with people.And I only mix with those who really accept me as their friend and was there for me when I was down.
She even told me that friends and money may come anytime but education should b a priority.I think she think that I don't know anything about education.Hahahahaha.Money may come any time but when got not enough money now to study what would happen.Curi bank ke.Friends is important as they are part of our life and don't tel me you got no friend.
She even said I avoid myself from true friendship.But did I really avoid it.As I feel I still have my friends around me.
Hope you let me me know you are..
Friday, November 27, 2009
Worth To Read - Power Of Money
This is written by Adam Khoo who is Singapore's youngest millionaire at 26 years old.
Some of you may already know that I travel around the region pretty frequently, having to visit and conduct seminars at my offices in Malaysia , Indonesia , Thailand and Suzhou ( China ). I am in the airport almost every other week so I get to bump into many people who have attended my seminars or have read my books.
Recently, someone came up to me on a plane to KL and looked rather shocked. He asked, 'How come a millionaire like you is travelling economy?' My reply was, 'That's why I am a millionaire. ' He still looked pretty confused.
This again confirms that greatest lie ever told about wealth (which I wrote about in my latest book 'Secrets of Self Made Millionaires'). Many people have been brainwashed to think that millionaires have to wear Gucci, Hugo Boss, Rolex, and sit on first class in air travel. This is why so many people never become rich because the moment that earn more money, they think that it is only natural that they spend more, putting them back to square one.
The truth is that most self made millionaires are frugal and only spend on what is necessary and of value. That is why they are able to accumulate and multiply their wealth so much faster.
Over the last 7 years, I have saved about 80% of my income while today I save only about 60% (because I have my wife, mother in law, 2 maids, 2 kids, etc. to support). Still, it is way above most people who save 10% of their income (if they are lucky).
I refuse to buy a first class ticket or to buy a $300 shirt because I think that it is a complete waste of money. However, I happily pay $1,300 to send my 2 year old daughter to Julia Gabriel Speech and D ram a without thinking twice.
When I joined the YEO (Young Entrepreneur's Orgn)a few years back (YEO) is an exclusive club open to those who are under 40 and make over $1m a year in their own business) I discovered that those who were self made thought like me. Many of them with net worth well over $5m,travelled economy class and some even drove Toyota 's and Nissans,not Audis, Mercs, BMWs..
I noticed that it was only those who never had to work hard to build their own wealth (there were also a few ministers' and tycoons' sons in the club) who spent like there was no tomorrow. Somehow, when you did not have to build everything from scratch, you do not really value money. This is precisely the reason why a family's wealth (no matter how much) rarely lasts past the third generation.
Thank God my rich dad foresaw this terrible possibility and refused to give me a cent to start my business.
Then some people ask me, 'What is the point in making so much money if you don't enjoy it?' The thing is that I don't really find happiness in buying branded clothes, jewellery or sitting first class. Even if buying something makes me happy it is only for a while, it does not last.
Material happiness never lasts, it just give you a quick fix. After a while you feel lousy again and have to buy the next thing which you think will make you happy. I always think that if you need material things to make you happy, then you live a pretty sad and unfulfilled life..
Instead, what makes me happy is when I see my children laughing and playing and learning so fast. What makes me happy is when I see my companies and trainers reaching more and more people every year in so many more countries.
What makes me really happy is when I read all the emails about how my books and seminars have touched and inspired some one's life.
What makes me really happy is reading all your wonderful posts about how this blog is inspiring you. This happiness makes me feel really good for a long time, much much more than what a Rolex would do for me.
I think the point I want to put across is that happiness must come from doing your life's work (be it teaching, building homes, designing,trading, winning tournaments etc.) and the money that comes is only a by-product. If you hate what you are doing and rely on the money you earn to make you happy by buying stuff, then I think that you are living a life of meaninglessness.
Thursday, November 26, 2009
Sad
First,I believe if there is money everything will be fine but I am not from rich family and I realise that.
Not only that I know there are people who are talking behind my back with and without my knowledge and that's the reason I am keeping myself away from many family gathering and I am sure the next family gathering will be in Xmas and there are people who I knew would ask me and talk to me what I am going to do next.
So please don't be surprise if I am missing and don't ask my parents about me as they are not happy with me.
Like my dad..when I told him that I will be doing H&T in KDU next year he ask me what about law.Is not that I never Tell him before that I going to change my course but they still expect me to do law.
I know is hard and is hard for me as well because I got to miss around with those people who are younger than me and strangers that I will studying together next year.
My life is so much of pain...
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Stop Giving It
As people are giving it once they are against the law and the people are receiving it.
Today there is a friend of mine called me and told me that she paid a policeman Rm50 so that she don't have to pay the fine for Rm300.Even Rm50 can change a person life.Is it because the policeman is not paid well till he got to take the money?
How are the people in Malaysia will be afraid of the law?
Is the law not strict enough for those who are giving it and receiving it?
What surprise me was that when she told me there is a tactic for her to give the money.Which is by putting it under the saman book so that people won't be able to see what is happening as it is a public area.
I know that there are certain group of policeman who will do these and not all of them.As a peribahasa in malay which stated as "kerana nila setitik rosak susu belanga".That's what will happen to the police department.
So we as a good citizen have to stop giving it to them...
Sunday, November 22, 2009
Dear Drivers
Please don't be selfish and think about others.
Love your life and your love ones.
Saturday, November 21, 2009
Mistake That We Done
Today I receive an email from my uncle and I want to share it with you all.
Mistake that girls use to do (even me)
Sit cross legs - For us girls we think that it is lady like manner to sit that way. But the fact is that without us realising it we actually cuts down blood circulation to our legs.
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Are We Safe?
I am sure that this "baboons" will not keep quite if someone else have attack their family member in such a way they had attack others.Because all their victim is all innocent and no one deserve to suffer the pain or die in such manner.
Where are the authority when we need the?
Why can't all these "baboons" be caught asap?
Why are they still out there?
I am sure there are many other question the be ask by many other people.
This is really unfair for us as we wants to have a happy and safe life style.
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
Been Out
Will update soon..
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Be Aware
Parents out there should be aware of what their children is doing and where they are going...
Because in two days itself because of flood it has cause two children to drown...
I wonder where are their parents to protect and care about them...
So parents out there do take care of your children no matter where they are...
Monday, November 9, 2009
Holes
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Indian Girls
Suddenly Calvin said that Indian girls have the attitude to ask their boyfriend to quit smoking once they couple up...he ask me and Mohana why are Indian girls like that..We girls can't answer that because we are not like that..But Calvin said that to quit smoking is up to an individual and they must do it to satisfied themselves and not others...
But when I think about it..The answer that I could give is that maybe the girl just being caring towards the guy...But in some point I agree with Calvin ask the must quit smoking according to their willingness...As is not easy to quit smoking..
But no matter what...It takes time...
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
Go Green
So why not every state in Malaysia follow Penang state and stop using the plastic...
1) Every family should have their own shopping bag..
2) Carry your our Tupperware when you buy food outside..
Save the world
Sunday, November 1, 2009
Prayer Is Important
I have learn that by doing that in some ways we are right and some are not ok..Because without realising we might pray to the other spirit besides God..With good prayer we offer to God everyday God will be there but..When we are not sincere in praying the other thing will be there...We won't actually realise about it...
I am happy that I learn alot recently...
Friday, October 30, 2009
Does and Don't Of Marriage Life
I was watching Oprah and got to know this...
Don't talk about money all the time - which I know is important in our everyday life but this is boring and cause frustration in the relationship
Don't talk about your children - this simply mean that don't talk about it when both the husband and wife are together..Yes you can talk about your kids but stop it and talk about his/her day at work,where did he/she went or etc
Do show appricaition among one another - this both the couple have to show how much they care about each other and from time to time besides buying gifts for your children buy something for he/her or go for a romantic dinner or holiday
The Most Important Is
Do More Sex - Sex is life the most important part where you could show your love towards your patner..
Do have exciting life ahead
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Jokes
It is about teacher in a class...
I recieve it from a mail in fact...
Cikgu : (Menengking) Mengapa selamat pagi sahaja? Petang dan malam awak doakan saya tak selamat?
Cikgu : Panjang sangat! Tak pernah dibuat oleh orang! Kata selamat sejahtera! Senang dan penuh bermakna. Lagipun ucapan ini meliputi semua masa dan keadaan.
Murid : Selamat sejahtera cikgu!
Cikgu : Sama-sama, duduk! Dengar sini baik-baik. Hari ini cikgu nak uji kamu semua tentang perkataan berlawan. Bila cikgu sebutkan perkataannya, kamu semua mesti menjawab dengan cepat, lawan bagi perkataan-perkataan itu, faham?
Murid : Faham, cikgu!
Nice Story To Share
Nice one..
Read it and you will like it...
While a man was polishing his new car,
his 4 yr old son picked up a stone
and scratched lines on the side of the car.
and hit it many times not realizing
he was using a wrench.
At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers
due to multiple fractures.
When the child saw his father.....
with painful eyes he asked, 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?'
The man was so hurt and speechless;
he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times.
Devastated by his own actions......
sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches;
the child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD'.
The next day that man committed suicide. . .
Anger and Love have no limits;
choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely
life & remember this:
Things are to be used and people are to be loved.
The problem in today's world is
that people are used while things are loved.
Let's try always to keep this thought in mind:
Things are to be used,
People are to be loved.
Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character;
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Give Respect
So no matter where we are or with who we are with...
Respect that person...
Monday, October 26, 2009
Stop Using Maid And Be Independent
Today these happen,
An Indonesian maid who was allegedly severely beaten by her Malaysian employers, and then bound and locked up in a toilet for two days, has died in hospital, police said Monday.
Click here to read
I don't understand why certain people need maid if their main purpose is to abused them..I think we could be independent and able to clean the house our self..
Is better to do all things on our own rather than be behind bars..
Dad's Cooking
Last Saturday my dad cook maggi goreng..He told my mom that she don't know how to cooked well and I end up being his assistance..So I was his tukang potong...And he is the tukang goreng..While eating eat everything taste really good and I even told my mom that dad's cooking is better...
After a few hours of eating we had stomach problem...Cirit birit...Hahahaha..I sakit perut and dad also sakit perut...At the end mom make us teh O pekat...hahaha...
Self Pamper Day
Here the lady is drawing the art on my nails..I really admire how they does that..Is like so easy for them to draw....
After one side of the legs is done..I had to leave the nails for half and hour to dry..
And finally this is the result...
But to do this Rm 30
The next time I will be going to a place which only charge Rm10 for the art work even how difficult the design..
Will be going there in 2 weeks time with my cousin as I don't know the place..